Head-to-Head Comparison
HER vs OkCupid
Which dating app is right for you? We break down every difference.
| Feature |  HER |  OkCupid |
|---|---|---|
| Overall Rating | ✓4.2 / 5 | 3.9 / 5 |
| Active Users | 13M+ | 10M+ |
| Starting Price | $14.99/mo | $19.99/mo |
| Free Version | ✓ Yes | ✓ Yes |
| Best Age Range | 21–40 | 18–45 |
| Relationship Type | Serious, Both | Casual, Serious, Both |
| Founded | 2013 | 2004 |
HER — Quick Take
- ✓Built for LGBTQ+ women and non-binary users — not a mainstream add-on
- ✓Community features and local events in major cities
- ✓Inclusive gender and orientation options
- ✕Smaller user base than Tinder or Bumble outside major metros
- ✕Premium unlocks likes and filters — free tier is limited
OkCupid — Quick Take
- ✓Most inclusive gender/orientation options of any major app
- ✓Compatibility % gives real signal on values alignment
- ✓Most affordable premium tier
- ✕Interface feels dated compared to Hinge/Bumble
- ✕Lower engagement rates in recent years
Our Pick
HER wins overall
HER edges out OkCupid with a higher editorial rating and lesbian & bi women focus.
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