Head-to-Head Comparison
HER vs Bumble
Which dating app is right for you? We break down every difference.
| Feature |  HER |  Bumble |
|---|---|---|
| Overall Rating | 4.2 / 5 | ✓4.4 / 5 |
| Active Users | 13M+ | 50M+ |
| Starting Price | $14.99/mo | $16.99/mo |
| Free Version | ✓ Yes | ✓ Yes |
| Best Age Range | 21–40 | 22–35 |
| Relationship Type | Serious, Both | Serious, Both |
| Founded | 2013 | 2014 |
HER — Quick Take
- ✓Built for LGBTQ+ women and non-binary users — not a mainstream add-on
- ✓Community features and local events in major cities
- ✓Inclusive gender and orientation options
- ✕Smaller user base than Tinder or Bumble outside major metros
- ✕Premium unlocks likes and filters — free tier is limited
Bumble — Quick Take
- ✓Women control the first message — reduces unsolicited messages
- ✓24-hour window creates urgency and filters passive users
- ✓BFF mode for platonic connections
- ✕Women must message first — some find this pressure
- ✕24-hour window can feel rushed
Our Pick
Bumble wins overall
Bumble edges out HER with a higher editorial rating and women who want control focus.
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